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You have to be careful though. If you look for a girl who's going to help "pull you out of your bunker", you risk falling into the trap of the "Manic Pixie Dream Girl." Every person who is scared, confined, and yet desperately wants to seek the outside world and grow as a person is at risk for believing that this person can really exist. The only person who can truly pull you out of your bunker is you. It has to be conscious, and it will be a lot of hard work, but if you do, your likelihood of meeting that dream girl who wants to travel and experience life increase exponentially.