You and I have a lot in common. Thank you. =) Been looking for work for a while, and so many Craigslist ads say, "must be a people person" or "must play well with others" or "must be a team player" and so on. Which really means: we don't care if you're intelligent, competent, if you get the job done; all we care about is that you always have a smile on your face, always up for small talk, and always have fun at our get togethers. Meanwhile, the quiet, hard working person gets looked at weirdly, and treated like they don't know how to do their job, what's wrong with that person? Never mind they're more competent, more driven, get more done, all the while asking for no recognition, no praise, a job well done is their reward. This society sucks sometimes.