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Fake it. Fake all of it. Imagine how OftenBen+ would handle such a situation. Imagine what a person who is comfortable in such a situation looks like, try to emulate that as much as possible.

All of which would be easier if I didn't sweat like a whore in church at the slightest stress, but it's the best I've got.