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BLOB_CASTLE  ·  4375 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What Will It Take For Us To Dream Again?

The change your speaking of has to occur with what you mentioned at the beginning of that comment.

    But it takes too much time and way too much effort.
If everyone had that mentality, no one would think the thoughts leading them to dream.

I know exactly what you mean by meeting those who you can immediately tell would be great friends. That's actually how I met my girlfriend. The aurora she gave off was so encapsulating, I had to get to know her. We spent three years as best friends and the most recent three and a half in a relationship.

Just put forth a little effort and talk to those whom you'd think would be awesome to talk to as opposed to the shelled person. Then, work your way up to breaking some shells.