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lil  ·  4290 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Lil's Book of Questions: Do You Have a Double Life?

You're right, we are not exactly the same person with different people. Relationships have their own habits, language, protocol, expectations, and activities. I know, however, that I had so many secrets in previous relationships -- I was so inconsistently my "self" -- that I had to "move over" and become "Selinda." In that case, moving over meant moving 3000 miles. Maybe it's a girl thing. I wonder what insomniasexx would say about double lives.