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b_b  ·  4000 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski, what is the story of your first love?

    Sex. Lots and lots of sex. Don't know how old you are but frankly, the younger you are, the more of it you'd probably have.

I think this is a myth. Or maybe I'm just an adolescent stuck in a grown man's body. I keep waiting for the day when my sex drive subsides, and I can get some focus in my life. But so far, two decades after hitting puberty, it hasn't really started to wane yet. It's a curse and a gift, I suppose.





_refugee_  ·  4000 days ago  ·  link  ·  

What I have found is that the time spent having sex does not necessarily change, nor necessarily the drive...

but the number of times you go in a day decreases. I have a couple of male friends in their early 30s who say they still have the same drive. Basically I think I am saying quality goes up but quantity may go down a bit.

I'm just sayin', like, I ain't havin' sex five times in one afternoon anymore. And yeah, I'm sure miles vary.

b_b  ·  4000 days ago  ·  link  ·  

So really what you're sayin' is that after years of frustration and dissatisfaction, you've finally found a man (or men) who don't give you the two-hump-chump night after night.

_refugee_  ·  4000 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Well, I've been satisfied for years. Really I noticed a change around when we all started hitting our twenties. Once any given guy got out of his teens, I guess. Not ALWAYS true but generally.

humanodon  ·  4000 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Obviously, people have different sex drives but, it seems like it can be tied to a person's level of physical fitness. If I'm in really good shape, I have a really high sex drive. If I haven't been working out for a while, then it diminishes a bit.

Someone must be studying this, somewhere.

b_b  ·  4000 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yuuuup. Who knew there was something called "the International Index of Erectile Function"?