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_refugee_  ·  4085 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski, what is the story of your first love?

What I have found is that the time spent having sex does not necessarily change, nor necessarily the drive...

but the number of times you go in a day decreases. I have a couple of male friends in their early 30s who say they still have the same drive. Basically I think I am saying quality goes up but quantity may go down a bit.

I'm just sayin', like, I ain't havin' sex five times in one afternoon anymore. And yeah, I'm sure miles vary.





b_b  ·  4085 days ago  ·  link  ·  

So really what you're sayin' is that after years of frustration and dissatisfaction, you've finally found a man (or men) who don't give you the two-hump-chump night after night.

_refugee_  ·  4085 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Well, I've been satisfied for years. Really I noticed a change around when we all started hitting our twenties. Once any given guy got out of his teens, I guess. Not ALWAYS true but generally.

humanodon  ·  4085 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Obviously, people have different sex drives but, it seems like it can be tied to a person's level of physical fitness. If I'm in really good shape, I have a really high sex drive. If I haven't been working out for a while, then it diminishes a bit.

Someone must be studying this, somewhere.

b_b  ·  4085 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yuuuup. Who knew there was something called "the International Index of Erectile Function"?