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thenewgreen  ·  3809 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: The Gratuitous Injustice of American Tipping Culture

I exhorbatantly tip. Why? Because I waited tables for years and know what sort of impact it has.

These days I tip more than ever because I know that when my family walks in the sever thinks "great two kids." -they take up two spots, add almost nothing to the bill, spill things, make messes and can at times be noisy. -great. Add to that the fact that my wife is a vegetarian and will often order an appetizer or salad as her entree and we definitely become that table.

Therefore, I enjoy defying their prejudice with my ordering (hence the extra 10lb's of late) and by my tipping.

Waiting tables is tough work. As is bar tending.





rob05c  ·  3809 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Waiting tables is tough work

Yeah, I worked fast food for a summer, but moreover, I grew up on the poverty line. It's hard to form a high opinion of the economic system when you're 14 and your mother has to choose between buying food or paying the electric bill.

Some of the hardest-working people I've met make blue-collar wages. I tip well because I make more than them, and they work just as hard, and I find that logically incongruous and morally repugnant. I appreciate the opportunity to reduce the inequality the tiniest bit.

That's probably also a large part of why I'm inclined toward social liberalism.

kleinbl00  ·  3809 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You should splurge on the wine. It takes no more extra effort to pour a $60 bottle of wine than a $30 bottle of wine but the gratuity is higher.

Also, I've noticed that the markup on the greater bottles tends to be lower than the markup on the lesser, but I might be imagining that. I can only hold so many wines in my head.

thenewgreen  ·  3808 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    You should splurge on the wine.
Preaching to the choir pal. I don't skimp on the booze.

    Also, I've noticed that the markup on the greater bottles tends to be lower than the markup on the lesser
The restaurant I managed back in the day was X2+$10 for bottles under $50 and just X2 otherwise.
kleinbl00  ·  3808 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Wisdom!