I can relate a lot with the depression, anxiety and feeling lonely. Have you tried OkCupid for dating? I've found it's pretty good for meeting people. Good luck with the move too! It can be pretty overwhelming and stressful but can work out great.
OkCupid is actually where I've found all of my dates so far this year! Nothing has stuck beyond 2 or 3 dates but I feel a lot more comfortable and confident about the whole process. Like I said I'm moving in a few weeks so I've taken a break for awhile here since there's no point in trying to start something at this point. My area doesn't seem to have a great ratio of guys to girls on OkCupid, but maybe it's like that everywhere? I've gotten probably 10 dates but I feel like I could get more if I lived in a better area. Hopefully Albany will be more fruitful, I'll likely take a look on OkCupid once I get settled in.