RE: treatment of soldiers. I've always been uncomfortable with the unconditionally glowing praise we give them. The attitude our country takes towards soldiers takes for granted the fact that morality is not black and white. Sometimes our soldiers do bad things, but we always downplay that like it's a non-issue. I'm not saying that we should assume that every soldier is guilty; I'm saying that we shouldn't assume anything. Doctors and scientists have a direct, positive effect on our daily lives, but we don't automatically assume that all of them are imperfect and worthy of praise -- nor should we.
So, if a soldier is returning or going to active duty and is allowed to board my plane before I do, I'm okay with that. If the people on the plane applaud their choice to defend us, I'm okay with that too. I honestly don't know anyone that thinks that just because someone is a soldier, they get a moral pass though. Wrong is wrong but service is service too.
I do too -- but I certainly think that our cultural attitude toward soldiers is above and beyond just appreciation. We appreciate a good teacher. We appreciate a Thanksgiving meal. What we show for soldiers is more akin to adulation and applause.