a thoughtful web.
Good ideas and conversation. No ads, no tracking.   Login or Take a Tour!
comment by user-inactivated
user-inactivated  ·  3613 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: To Fall In Love With Anyone, Do This

I wonder if it helps with self-confidence to stare into your own eyes like that.





rob05c  ·  3613 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I wonder if it helps with self-confidence

Or narcissism.

Dendrophobe  ·  3613 days ago  ·  link  ·  
user-inactivated  ·  3613 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I say "I wonder", but I've done it before just to see. :P It was just before sundown; not sure if that was dark enough, but I found that with the right distance (almost nose touching the mirror), if I stared long enough into my eyes, it began to feel dissociative, and it was like I was looking at a different person staring coolly back at me. I normally never look at people that close, so it was a bit unnerving.

I should mention that it didn't help with self-confidence nor make me more narcissistic, but maybe I didn't do it properly or at the right distance...?