We both know it's gotta happen.
"Baby, don't get mad at me! It's not my fault. nowaypablo said it was inevitable and I agreed with him, so I just let myself give in . . . What? No! I am not sleeping in the bed of the truck tonight. That's not how this marriage works . . . Okay. Fine. Whatever. Where's the fucking sleeping bag?"
I've been banished to the bed of the pick-up truck since July 4, but I haven't told anyone except thenewgreen and _refugee_ and wasoxygen. I guess that's quite a lot of people. I'm getting used to living in the pick-up truck. The weather's been great and I parked it by Lake Huron. There's even a guy here who's been making all the meals. They said I could stay as long as I want, but I'll have to make a foray back to the city tomorrow morning. Damn.
Both relative terms, so pick your poison. The difference in asking forgiveness is that you've committed a sin of omission, whereas if you ask permission and are denied then you are forced to commit a sin of commission to achieve your ends. Commission usually trumps omission in degrees of evil, so it is both "better" and "easier" in my opinion. But, I agree that the saying flows better when using 'easier.'