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kleinbl00  ·  3384 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Are you scared to post?

I'm taking this tone because you started your statement with:

    Reddit's whole fear of doxxing stems from a culture of license where there's an irrational (and many cases, immoral) desire to be free of any or all negative consequences while enjoying all the positives.

That's victim-blaming, pure and simple.

You continue with:

    There is a very simple rule to some stuff on the internet: if you wouldn't do something away from the keyboard, don't do it at the keyboard and expect some arbitrary internet rules to save you.

So that if there was any question as to whether or not you blame the victim, you've laid it all out there - yes, it's the victim's fault. Who are these victims?

    Applies equally to posturing for "brave" political views, romances or hookups, exposing your genitals and/or engaging in gossip.

So... people who deserve it. Obviously, someone who got doxxed is the sort of person who would "expose their genitals" or "engage in gossip." Any humility? Any chance you might include yourself in that group?

    So no, I don't fear posting because I post stuff I generally feel is reflective of what I really think and feel and am willing to say in public. Why make things more complicated than that?

No, no. You're clever. And moral. People who lead moral lives have nothing to fear.

Let's be clear:

- They doxed my wife to get back at me - for suggesting that delivering babies out of a hospital shouldn't be worthy of a death sentence.

- They tried to dox me for preventing them from ruining two people's lives through slander.

- They sent a SWAT team after an /r/gaming mod for taking down a picture of a PC.

NOW you're changing tactics to Reddit's inability to remember and "nihilism of mission" but a good 80% of your previous post was an argument that if you got doxxed, you deserved it.

And it just ain't so.





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kleinbl00  ·  3384 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    I'm still not sure what you're getting at.

That's clear. Here's the fundamental disconnect, as I see it.

Your position - correct me if I'm wrong - is that Reddit's architecture encourages oversharing and Reddit's team does nothing to protect people from the consequences.

My position is that you shouldn't start out by victim blaming three times over if this is your position.

I'll spell it out for you: People have been trying to dox me for a long time. Do I "deserve" it? I've been an active and high-profile participant on a site that went from interesting to vicious to virulent so yeah - if "participation" equals "deserve" then yep, walked right into that one. But you've got an oddly moral leaning to it all that makes zero sense. As you point out yourself, Reddit went ass over teakettle doxing a dead college student so constantly harping on violentacrez makes little sense.

I'll spell it out for you further: violentacrez was an enemy of mine. He spent months trying to trip me up and bring down the rage of the horde upon me because he thought it would be fun. I even asked him about it - wanna know what he said?

"Nothing personal."

Let's back this up to a quote:

    So no, I don't fear posting because I post stuff I generally feel is reflective of what I really think and feel and am willing to say in public. Why make things more complicated than that?

I hope you now see that things are vastly more complicated than that, and, in the words of Bill Munny, "Deserve's got nothing to do with it."

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kleinbl00  ·  3384 days ago  ·  link  ·  

There you go again.

Sure - maybe you're seeing people complain from those that - and you can't let this go - some how "deserve" it. But I didn't. My wife didn't. The mods of /r/gaming didn't. The kid who just put up a speech didn't. Would you know about any of those if I hadn't said anything? Perhaps, then, your perspective on the situation is flawed.

And you're still harping on abstracts - sure, this shit ought to be against the law. In many cases it is. But it's a sophisticated police department that hears "I just shot my girlfriend and I have a bomb and I'm at this address" that immediately thinks "hmmm... I wonder if someone's butt-hurt on the Internet?" 'cuz there's no reward for caution. Far better to roll a command car and evacuate 500 apartments.

So the real problem IS doxing. The real problem IS people with nothing to lose playing dirty tricks on people with something to lose. The real problem IS that waving your hands and going "it's an Internet problem" does not dismiss the fact that it's a REAL problem and that you aren't speaking from a position of authority when you've chosen a random alphanumeric string to carry out discourse.

I'm done giving you excuses to morally impugn those that have been doxed. I've said three times now that it isn't about that, and three times now, you've come back with "well of course it isn't - but still, they deserved it." You're clearly playing lip service to the notion that maybe this is a problem normal people need to worry about and I'm not going to continue.

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Quatrarius  ·  3384 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Because the people who complain about doxing the most these days --bar none-- have been the mods of the worst subreddits (the griefers, racists, gamer-fascists, the neoreaction groups, etc.)

People who I don't like deserve to be harassed, am I right? :^)

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