I tried to find a good excerpt to post as a teaser, but this is really something that needs to be read and digested in it's entirety.
Shared most of my thoughts individually with a friend, and would rather not fully repeat them here (mostly out of laziness). That said I thought this was a pretty interesting read, OB, minus the fact that the author did not cite any of his sources and overall is not particularly constructive about his message. I think that initially, I agree with the author's overall point: that attributes of men tend to have a higher spread, even when their average is similar to those of women. However I disagree with how he then applies this as a universal argument towards present and historical gender inequalities as well as using them as justifications for the inguinuity of men. He seems to mistake a social / evolutionary trend for an absolute argument as to why things are the way they are. Take his discussion of academics, for example: (mainly focused on CS and biology, since those are what I know) The thing is, gender inequality is itself not uniform across STEM. Across math, computing, and engineering, women make up a much smaller fraction of the students and faculty. Yet as you switch to biology, psychology, and medicine, suddenly the enrollment gap shrinks, blurs, and you switch from questions of sheer percent student composition to those of pay, faculty acceptances, and grant rewards. Is biology a fundamentally less aggressive / testosterone-driven field? (Hint: no) Is biology a less social field? (Hint: no) Was computing more male-dominated from the start? (Hint: no) Or are these differences between these two fields due to cultural, historical, and behavioral differences that don't quite fit into the author's one-size-fits-all model? There are definitely gendered differences in computing that are very tangible (see the general lack of female interest in bitcoin and cryptography), but they aren't really explained by the kurtosis of male attributes. Perhaps male dominance in those topics stems from a stereotypical desire to have complete control over ones digital information. Perhaps it's a self-perpetuating loop due to a historical lack of women there. But Ada Lovelace designed the first computer algorithm and Grace Hopper the first programming language. And the story there doesn't really match our authors' narrative: Isaacson says in the 1930s female math majors were fairly common — though mostly they went off to teach. But during World War II, these skilled women signed up to help with the war effort. Bartik told a live audience at the Computer History Museum in 2008 that the job lacked prestige. The ENIAC wasn't working the day before its first demo. Bartik's team worked late into the night and got it working. "They all went out to dinner at the announcement," she says. "We weren't invited and there we were. People never recognized, they never acted as though we knew what we were doing. I mean, we were in a lot of pictures." At the time, though, media outlets didn't name the women in the pictures. After the war, Bartik and her team went on to work on the UNIVAC, one of the first major commercial computers. -- Finally, I'd like to not let this paragraph go uncommented: Of all of the writing, this section bothered me the most. It's completely revisionist history that ignores the deliberate exclusion of women from the early days of medical research. Scientific medicine changed childbirth. Men led medicine at the time. Therefore only when men were allowed in could childbirth be improved. Garbage reasoning. -- Still, appreciate the read, since it definitely got me thinking and I appreciate the author trying to broach this subject without being too PC-y or MRA-y about it. I don't like that he argues from such absolute terms, but bits of this is worth ruminating on.Return for a moment to the Larry Summers issue about why there aren’t more female physics professors at Harvard. Maybe women can do math and science perfectly well but they just don’t like to. After all, most men don’t like math either! Of the small minority of people who do like math, there are probably more men than women.
"Men were interested in building, the hardware," says Isaacson, "doing the circuits, figuring out the machinery. And women were very good mathematicians back then."
But not very long ago, men were finally allowed to get involved, and the men were able to figure out ways to make childbirth safer for both mother and baby. Think of it: the most quintessentially female activity, and yet the men were able to improve on it in ways the women had not discovered for thousands and thousands of years.
The page belongs to an author five years dead and records the remarks made at a closed conference eight years ago. Some things you just have to take without hypertext. It's also a mistake to contradict generalities with cherry-picked statistics. Your link is to "the forgotten female programmers who created modern tech" - the argument isn't that women are incapable of anything men are capable of, the argument is that broad trends highlight a handful of women in a sea of dudes. Programming actually highlights the point: I don't know if you've ever tried knitting or weaving, but it's a highly mathematical, numerically intensive process involving manual dexterity and memory. Anyone who can knit kicks ass at arithmetic, bare minimum, and definitely has the necessary skills for coding. Yet the leap from weaving to computing? From a dude. Just to be clear: Neither Baumeister nor myself are arguing that women can't code, that a woman couldn't have invented the Jacquard loom. The argument is that given a loom, men will have an easier time getting rich off of it. So let's talk about the section that bothers you the most. There's nothing genius about forceps. I reckon any midwife with access to a forge could have come up with forceps. A woman who invented forceps would likely have made herself a pair and used them to save the lives of the mothers under her care. Peter Chamberlin, on the other hand, fled Paris under threat of death by the Medicis, went to medical school and was such a wild card that he went to prison, then got himself released under royal decree to be the Queens obstetrician. All because he invented a gadget his family leveraged in secret for 200 years before Elizabeth Blackwell was even born. Yay Semmelweis, boo Victorian England, but the period you're talking about women weren't allowed to vote or own property, let alone contribute to medical science. And the whole point of the discussion is not that women don't contribute, it's that the overwhelming course of history is deeply oppressive to women and either all men are evil dicks or there's a biological, evolutionary reason for the exclusion of females from the structures of society. Say what you will about patriarchy - it's universal among cultures that have invented, say, writing. You can find outliers in any statistical study. The argument of the author is that the women who have succeeded are even greater outliers than the men who have succeeded because numerically, the female gender produces fewer outliers.Certainly today anybody of any gender can start a business, and if anything there are some set-asides and advantages to help women do so. There are no hidden obstacles or blocks, and that’s shown by the fact that women start more businesses than men. But the women are content to stay small, such as operating a part-time business out of the spare bedroom, making a little extra money for the family. They don’t seem driven to build these up into giant corporations. There are some exceptions, of course, but there is a big difference on average.
Noted. I don't like accepting arguments where I don't have the sources, but it's still food for thought. I think what bothers me about his argument though is that he takes a somewhat old observation (see: old analogy of keys and locks) and tries to apply it to situations where it could follow, but it just as well could not. Minorities weren't the ones dominating programming, and in the early days, women were highly discouraged from the sort of creative thinking involved in computer design. Does that point to differences in ability? Or access / motivation? Yet in spite of that, women invented the first programming language and compiler, operated the first general computer, and invented / co-invented many of the broadcast and networking protocols available today. Were they dominant the whole way? No. But at a time when the relative accessibility of these technologies was highly limited for women, it seems erroneous to me to point to there being fewer achievements by one gender and immediately claim an explanation based on an evolutionary and not a social argument. I honestly don't know the full story here, but from what I looked up... this was an invention from before germ theory could even explain why forceps would be useful and he kept them a secret for most of his life. That's not a fitting example here since he neither used them to get rich or benefit humanity at large, and his male offspring, too, failed to sell them when they tried. But again, I think this is a circular argument: saying that society's are better when women are assigned their place and arguing that from evidence of men's superiority during times when women were oppressed. It doesn't really hold up when you look at modern times when those constraints have been relaxed, nor in non-Euro/American cultures where women were not as deeply oppressed.The page belongs to an author five years dead and records the remarks made at a closed conference eight years ago. Some things you just have to take without hypertext.
Peter Chamberlen
You're not really making an argument. You're saying "I'm uncomfortable with your counterargument." The speech was entitled "Is there anything good about men?" Perhaps you forget, but I don't - "Men Are Not Cost Effective" "Are Men Necessary?" "The Female brain" The implication has been, since the dawn of women's lib, that women aren't just equal to men, they are superior in many ways... and that it is only through (a) the concerted efforts of a misogynist patriarchy or (b) the natural malevolence and antagonism towards women by men that society remains a male-dominated enterprise. In other words, men are over-represented in positions of power because we're either conspiring or evil. I am not a member of the men's rights movement. I fully support equality for women in all things. I always have. I have always gone out of my way to reverse the tide that women face in a man's world, and I have always been reminded that I'm part of the problem, not the solution, and that there are some things I just won't understand because I have a penis. Yet every son has a mother and every daughter has a father and I guarantee you, nobody set out to make things harder for their loved ones. Yet we've evolved a social environment where even questioning the reasons behind the imbalance is taboo. We've gotten to the point where someone can mention that childbirth was made safer by integration into society and someone else feels perfectly justified getting uncomfortable that the suggestion was even made. It PISSES ME OFF that we can't even talk about anthropological differences without somebody getting hot under the collar. It PISSES ME OFF that the default position is "men are evil, accept it and shut up" is the only position you can take without getting screamed at. It PISSES ME OFF that you feel comfortable saying "I honestly don't know the full story here..." but your argument is invalid. THE WHOLE FUCKING POINT is that modern times are DIFFERENT. It's not a circular argument. Either (A) men are evil or (B) there's something else at play and I, for one, am sick of being the fucking bad guy.(Why are women more verbal than men? Why do women remember details of fights that men can’t remember at all? Why do women tend to form deeper bonds with their female friends than men do with their male counterparts? These and other questions have stumped both sexes throughout the ages. )
As much as he's easy to mock for being impenetrable, Derrida has a good theory for why what you're seeing happens. Because when you're comparing opposites it's hard to do it from a neutral position; you're not really asking how men and women are different, you're asking how women are different from men or how men are different from women. Because you start with one as your model, you see the other as lacking whatever traits aren't shared, and so being deficient. In light of which, while it may or may not be true, "there are no essential differences" is the only position that isn't perilous.
Calm down. I'm not getting hot under the collar. I'm not saying I'm uncomfortable with the argument, or that it's inappropriate, or accusing you of being a bad person in any aspect. I'm just saying that I don't buy the author's argument. I think it's searching for one explanation to a phenomenon that I consider highly complex and hard to ascribe to any one factor without mountains more evidence than what the article presented. If a professor of social psychology is making observations of how things are, that's fine. If they want to get mechanistic and say X is the reason why things are that way, I'm going to put on my skeptic hat and ask: is that reasoning sound? And my conclusion is that I don't think it's sound to use the historical prevalence of men in technical innovation as an argument for their innate tendency towards the edges of intelligence / creativity when all the while women were actively discouraged from doing those very things. And my most basic counterexample is that the trends of women involvement across different fields don't correlate with the attributes described by the author. He could have made a non-PC appeal towards differences in abstract vs. concrete thinking ability and I would have taken it more seriously. But he argued from the perspective of motivation, sociability, and sexual reward and I gave the counterexample of CS vs. biology. Past that, I largely agree with his argument that cultures put men to use at both of the extremes of the world and that men have a greater need to prove themselves to improve their chances of reproduction.
Fair enough. At the same time, recognize that _refugee_ hasn't talked to me in three days because I dared to support the notion that maybe men and women are different in ways other than "men are evil, women aren't." And I've had this argument, over and over again, where some attempt is made to divine a reason for inequality other than "men are evil" and the consensus opinion remains "it is taboo to discuss the idea that men aren't evil." Which is what you're doing - you're arguing that it's inappropriate to explore the prevalence of men in history to explain the prevalence of men in history. You're arguing, in effect, that you'd humor the argument if only he'd made a completely different argument. This is the argument that was made. This is the argument being discussed. Instead of the default "women are better and different" or "men are worse and different" the discussion is "how are men different?" and a hypothesis was put forth. Reject that hypothesis if you want, but don't rejected on the basis that it isn't the hypothesis you wish to discuss.
Well, for a bit of context, coffeesp00ns told me off the other day for my use of language and I got dumped last month for being too politically apathetic. I'm not really in a position to judge others morals and, even if I were, I'm trying my best these days to try and be non-judgemental towards other people and actually understand all the compassion and mindfulness preachings that the hippies I lived around in Berkeley used to always talk about. I think my dispute in this case is that, yeah, each gender's innate abilities is a touchy subject, so I don't like seeing what I see as poorly reasoned argument being put forth as fact. Like I said though, author is definitely not MRA-y about what he says, so I'm only poking at one component of his essay / speech.
I'm sorry, like, are we reading the same article Nature consciously designed each gender to be different - let's repeat that concept - NATURE (pause) CONSCIOUSLY DESIGNED (pause) EACH GENDER (very big long pause ) TOBEDIFFERENTONPURPOSE. I mean hokay dude I think we need to revisit a couple of really important concepts right now. Like intelligent design vs. evolution. Like what evolution is. Why is there no argument there. wat Well fuck me, right? I'm sorry let me clarify something. Most men are descended from the men who fought their way to the top...but most women aren't? The whole logic here is that "men have to fight their way to the top to reproduce" and then there's this whole "the men that father children contribute half their genes and so on." But this sentence that I quote is literally basically saying "Men descend from men who had to fight their way to the top. But women, they don't descend from women who had to fight their way to the top, it was just the men who had to do that." 'SCUSE ME. Fuckin' scuse me. Did not the men and women of today's generation both descend from the same groups of men and women who reproduced? I.e., the women came from the seed of men who had to fight their way to the top, even if they came from women who didn't. and the men alive today came from the wombs of women who didn't have to fight to reproduce, even though they come from the seed of men who did. Am I drunk? Am I reading this wrong? Is the author actually trying to say that men descend from men who had to fight their way to dominance, and therefore have significantly better genes, as opposed to women who didn't have to because every man wanted their woman-womb? Is the author actually totally ignoring that if those are the men that survived and were able to reproduce, it would impact both those men's male as well as female children? And vice versa? AM I DRUNK? I completely fail to see how "what happened in early human society" is supposed to reflect some ideal to which "current human society" is trying to work its way back to. "Current human society" is trying to work its way towards "equality." It is completely moot what we used to do way back in the way back. Personally, me? I try not to backtrack. My goal is to always move forwards. Oh. Well, since I understand that's because I've got a womb and that womb has got to be protected for the furtheration of our species, I'm totally okay with being cloistered away for my own "protection." Down. Got it. No problem. JUST KIDDING __ I could keep going. I mean, tell this to one of my ex-boyfriends. I mean, any one. Whoops - did I just prove the point all on my womanly ownsome? Tradeoffs again: perhaps nature designed women to seek to be lovable, whereas men were designed to strive, mostly unsuccessfully, for greatness.
True, women are less aggressive than men, no argument there.
Women are if anything more likely than men to perpetrate domestic violence... Women also do more child abuse than men... you can’t say that women avoid violence toward intimate partners.
Women specialize in the narrow sphere of intimate relationships. Men specialize in the larger group. If you make a list of activities that are done in large groups, you are likely to have a list of things that men do and enjoy more than women: team sports, politics, large corporations, economic networks, and so forth.
remember, most men didn’t reproduce, and we’re mainly descended from the men who did fight their way to the top. Not so for women.
The generally accepted view is that back in early human society, men and women were close to equal.
most cultures keep their women out of harm’s way while using men for risky jobs.
Women favor the kind of relationships in which each person is precious and cannot truly be replaced.
I suppose the stock explanation for any such difference is that women were not encouraged, or were not appreciated, or were discouraged from being creative. But I don’t think this stock explanation fits the facts very well. In the 19th century in America, middle-class girls and women played piano far more than men. Yet all that piano playing failed to result in any creative output. There were no great women composers, no new directions in style of music or how to play, or anything like that. All those female pianists entertained their families and their dinner guests but did not seem motivated to create anything new. Meanwhile, at about the same time, black men in America created blues and then jazz, both of which changed the way the world experiences music. By any measure, those black men, mostly just emerging from slavery, were far more disadvantaged than the middle-class white women. Even getting their hands on a musical instrument must have been considerably harder. And remember, I’m saying that the creative abilities are probably about equal. But somehow the men were driven to create something new, more than the women. It's really handy for the writer of this article that no women were a part of the jazz movement, innit? Wait... This article repeatedly, repeatedly, uses exaggerated examples such as this one which deliberately set a "male movement" vs. a "female movement" to establish one example which is then taken as evidence of the entire point. There were women in jazz, tons. But the author credits the entire movement to black men, forgetting black women or other women who were a part of the genre. They were typically singers, so no, they wouldn't improvise in the same way that a jazz quintet would. But to say that black men created jazz is to ignore Ella Fitzgerald, Billie Holiday, Nina Simone, Bessie Smith and countless others. So his point here is that women simply are less creative than men, because white educated women who were trained to play the piano as part of standard "wedding material repertoire" weren't creating music, but black men were. Except there's loads more cultural differences than he's taking into account here. Except there's loads of women he's discounting when he says they had no part in jazz. How about this? If that's true, then conversely, men shouldn't specialize in small group or single person activities. Funnily enough, most creative activities (writing, painting, playing music, composing, etc) are not group activities. By that logic men shouldn't be better at these activities. However, apparently besides preferring large group activities men are still also more creative, even when it comes to doing things they don't prefer. Also, there should be fewer male writers than women (there aren't), since men as a whole don't prefer that type of activity. Fewer male painters. Composers. You get it. None of which there are. I mean, like, I think I'm just hearing "men are naturally better at everything" over and over again in different ways in this article. Either you're not or you're not bothered by it. This one is for PantherHeel93 : So, in this paragraph, the author is saying that women don't feel the need to differentiate themselves from each other because they don't descend from women who have had to fight their way to the top to mate. (For the time being we'll disregard my first problem with this statement, which is that since every person is a product of the combined genes of a woman and a man, writing as if men descended only from "men who had to fight to mate" and therefore are more aggressive, and as if women descended only from women who, well, didn't, establishes an interestingly tribe-like and ignorant paradigm which disregards the fact that since those fighter men would have had to fuck those non-fighter women to create children, the aggressive traits of the fathers would have ended up in both their female and male progeny while the lazy traits of the mothers would have done the same and it's really fallacious and in fact stupid to suggest that the male offspring only take after their male forefathers and the females their female foremothers.) In this paragraph, the author states that men feel the need to be special and do things which set them apart, while women simply don't, because each gender feels drawn to different sizes of interpersonal relationships (essentially, men like group bonding, women like pair bonding). Here are the questions which spring to my mind in regards to these assertions. First, how are we justifying this statement? How are we justifying or backing up this idea that women don't differentiate themselves as much as men do? Let's go back a paragraph or two: So because women tend not to think of themselves in ways that distinguish their personal self from a group, we are supposed to conclude women actively don't try to set themselves apart from others. Or, while some women might do it, they aren't driven to do it in the same way as men are. Empirically and scientifically speaking, how might one quantify or measure degrees of "setting oneself apart from others" or "individualism"? If we can do that why is there no mention of a measurable and statistically significant difference between men and women in that regard? I mean, you'd think someone would have looked into this, right? Why is fashion supposed to be dominated by women if women aren't creative and don't need to set themselves apart from each other? (Maybe it's not really dominated by women so the answer is "because it's a man's thing." You tell me.) Now, as for that statement about how large groups foster the need for individualism, I'm a bit puzzled by that. I mean, come on, we've all read "The Lottery." Or "A&P." Or any story about a small town which rigidly enforces uniformity at the price of citizens' happiness or even lives. Uh...Footloose? It seems a common maxim taught to children in schools that groups create "group think." Or as we call them now, "echo chambers." or "hiveminds." Or "reddit." So like, how is that statement, that large groups somehow foster individualism, being blandly accepted by everyone reading it? The generally accepted maxim about group behavior refers to lemmings and essentially asserts the opposite. But here this author can slip in this sentence and everyone seems to have swallowed it like gravy because it fits so well in the cadence of the speech and patterns the author has already established. I'd even assert that in large groups it is better for the group to have at least 2 people that can do each job not one special individual. An individual is important to the group if he can hunt, for instance. But if he is the only hunter the entire group is fucked if he is hurt or killed. If you have multiple hunters, they aren't special, they aren't distinguishing themselves from the entire rest of the group - they're a subunit - meanwhile it's better for the group because redundancy. I mean, so, how about all of that? Besides the fact that this paragraph is essentially saying that women just aren't driven to be special which disregards every single woman who accomplished anything of note in any art or science - Marie Curie coming in top of my list - because she was driven to it. If a woman's driven like that, apparently, it's just gravy. Whereas it burns in every man? If what I am seeing is wrong, tell me how it's wrong. But what I am seeing a lot of in this article is deliberately separating men and women into 2 distinct categories that are like yin and yang : they do not overlap, they compliment, but if you are yin you are definitely clearly not yang and vice versa. It's stuff like saying men descend from the men that fought to make kids while women descend from the women who just lay there. Like excluding the entire history of women in jazz from a discussion of the jazz movement. I'm not saying men and women might be different, but complimentary. I am saying this article is bullshit. I mean for christ's sakes guys the man titled his essay "Is There Anything Good About Men," then opens by saying: THEN Is that my axe to grind kleinbl00 ? Is that me misinterpreting this article? I mean literally the sections "Men on Top" and "Stereotypes at Harvard" are basically saying "Well there are just more men," and then "Not all men," and then "well maybe there aren't simply more men than women, maybe it's that there are more men at the ends of the spectrum as opposed to the middle" in case being told that the reason there were more men in power than women was simply because there were more men at all seemed slightly, I don't know, flimsy or tautologic to you. hardly any women improvise. Why? The ability is there but perhaps the motivation is less. They don’t feel driven to do it.
Women specialize in the narrow sphere of intimate relationships. Men specialize in the larger group. If you make a list of activities that are done in large groups, you are likely to have a list of things that men do and enjoy more than women: team sports, politics, large corporations, economic networks, and so forth.
cultivating a unique skill isn’t essential for her. But playing the trombone is a way to get into some groups, especially brass bands. This is another reason that men go to extremes more than women. Large groups foster the need to establish something different and special about yourself.
research showing that men think of themselves based on their unusual traits that set them apart from others, while women’s self-concepts feature things that connect them to others
The question of whether there’s anything good about men is only my point of departure.
I think it’s best to avoid value judgments as much as possible...I have no conclusions to present about what’s good or bad
So when I say you're looking for a reason to be offended and deliberately misrepresenting arguments so you can be pissed off, deliberately misrepresenting arguments so you can be pissed off doesn't make your case. "Black men created jazz" does not mean "there were no women in jazz." "Women favor small groups" does not mean "only women pursue solo activity." You're not even going for the tangential arguments ("women clearly composed as much as men, it's just that in a patriarchal society they had a much harder time having their compositions heard") you're moving the goal posts to where the author argued somewhere that men can't be poets. And then you wrote a paragraph invoking a sci fi story, Footloose and Reddit. Go to sleep. Wake up. Have coffee. Take a deep breath. Then read it again. I'm not going to tell you why you're wrong when an article arguing that evolutionarily, women and men have different goals gets turned into a diatribe about Marie Curie.
This is a common problem with scientific studies, particularly in psychology and sociology. It's so hard to look at generalized statistics and understand that just because you don't fit the description does not mean they are any less true on average. I think you're right that this is what trips you up. You are not a typical female, so seeing these studies that show females on average are overwhelmingly different from you is hard to believe.
Since kleinbl00 already covered the majority of your silly argument I just want to address what you directed at me. Firstly, regarding your genetic rant, again I feel the need to reiterate that men and women are not genetic clones with different physical parts. All these studies show differences in them which due to genetics and hormones predispose them to acting in different ways. So kindly get off your soap box for a moment while you contemplate the indisputable fact that men and women developed differently based on evolutionary, societal, and cultural incentives for doing so. This happens in virtually every species on Earth. If you think people are really just half mom and half dad, you need some time alone with your Punnett Squares. As for the main part of what you directed at me, the part about quantifying individualism, that is answered in this article. I suggest following kleinbl00's advice and giving this another read in the morning while trying to keep your emotions out of it. I know that's a lot of effort and a lot of reading, but you're clearly not understanding the opposing viewpoint, and if you ever want to argue outside of an echo chamber and avoid looking foolish, understanding the opposing viewpoint is vital. However, I doubt you'll reread it, as that would interfere with your confirmation bias.
S'that what you're doing with the comment where I called you out on bullshit earlier, or do you just wander from post to post and say [BLANK] bias to people like you're in first year philosophy class and then not going back and answering when somebody gives you shit that you can't handle? "Wayward you attacked me with an ad-hominem! Now let me just be a condescending prick right here, it's not the same thing!" I just, I don't get it! It's weird to me that you agree with klein when he has the ability to argue with someone without being a condescending prick. "I know that's a lot of effort and a lot of reading." Holy shit-fuck. It's so hard to take you seriously when you talk to everyone like you're better than them. Stop it. You'll more than likely enjoy it here more if you don't act like that. To conclude, I'm not gonna be reading however you respond to this. Just gonna hush you up for a week, check back, see if your attitude's changed. HOPEFULLY IT DOES.I suggest following kleinbl00's advice and giving this another read in the morning
Totally. What the article says is as a woman, you are more likely to find a family and have children. What the article says is as a woman, your level of necessary success to be judged as "successful" is lower. What the article says is as a woman, you are not only less likely to be a CEO, you are also less likely to be a prison inmate, a workaholic or a workplace casualty. Effectively, the article says that "average" women are judged as successful but men need to lean more towards extraordinary because that's the structure we've evolved. If you accept that you are more likely to be average than extraordinary, it's better to be a woman. The only negative aspect for women is that men are more likely to be extraordinary than women - a consequence of men more likely to be deeply substandard. But again - it's a statistical argument. Statistics can no more predict whether or not you're extraordinary than whether or not you're blonde. Yeah - it can give you odds, but numbers don't know you.
Yeah. I don't consider being "average" a compliment or a positive aspect. I'd rather die out in a flame than fade away, or whatever, apparently. For those who are okay with the safe option I guess being a woman, from the point of the article, seems okay. I guess it's the average people that don't have billboards or movies for them.
No one's asking you to. more important, the article doesn't argue that women are more or less average than men - the article is arguing that women who stand out actually stand out more than men who stand out. More than that, you can still stand out and be judged on the median:On the Titanic, the richest men had a lower survival rate (34%) than the poorest women (46%) (though that’s not how it looked in the movie). That in itself is remarkable. The rich, powerful, and successful men, the movers and shakers, supposedly the ones that the culture is all set up to favor — in a pinch, their lives were valued less than those of women with hardly any money or power or status. The too-few seats in the lifeboats went to the women who weren’t even ladies, instead of to those patriarchs.
I'm a big fan of existentialism. Nothing matters, life is pointless, the world is pointless, the universe is pointless. No matter what we do, we will die, be forgotten, and nothing we remembered or nothing about how we exist today will live on. There is no future for us. But, regardless of that, we can life happily picking our own path, picking what is important for us. In the grand scheme of things, life is truly pointless, from my view, I just want to be happy, live my life, and die. Going out with a bang, being famous, is encouraged by society because it benefits society when people sacrifice themselves for doing so. Society loves a poet driven to suicide, but who produced lovely poems for thousands. Do you want to be that poet?
I didn't say that because my views of you, or because I thought you are a child, I said that because it's a rhetorical tool. Making the statement that being great, being a hero, is something that society "glamorizes" at the expense of all those who become heroes. And that nobody should actually want to be a hero, even in the culture that emphasizes it, because it comes a personal harm.
" If you have multiple hunters, they aren't special, they aren't distinguishing themselves from the entire rest of the group - they're a subunit - meanwhile it's better for the group because redundancy" But it's better for the individual person in the group to be irreplaceable. If I'm the only hunter, everyone will work to protect me and I get all the ladies. It's evolution, not politics.
It's not, actually. You're just too busy being offended to notice. Read the section headlined "Stereotypes at Harvard." There's a point being made, but since that point flies in the face of "women are underrepresented because patriarchy" you tuned out and went full snark, zero refutation. It's not even a complicated argument. Here - I'll spell it out simply: Because it takes one womb to create one child, women are effectively assured reproduction. On the other hand, one man can have countless progeny which requires men to compete with each other in order to reproduce. This competition has genetically selected for diversity in male behavior while the assurance of reproduction in women has genetically selected for homogeny. How 'bout simpler? Men have to stick out and take risks if they want to have kids, while women have to survive. A man who does nothing to distinguish himself is unlikely to reproduce, while a woman who strives to distinguish herself actually reduces her ability to reproduce through undue risk. The key phrase is actually in the text: Here's how that reveals itself in GPA, with women earning better grades than men: Here's how it reveals itself in the workplace, with women earning less pay than men: The article presents a statistical, evolutionary argument for why women get the shaft academically, professionally and historically without resorting to "the patriarchy." Simply put, it says that the basic underpinnings of society were created by men to one-up other men and that historically, women largely opted out because the fundamental unit of female society is smaller than the fundamental unit of male society. It goes on to say that there's conflict now because we're reshaping our society to fit women into the larger context. But you were too busy literally getting your panties in a twist. 'member this? That's yet another example of the most controversial words I've ever committed to the internet: It's part of an argument whereby I point out that both genders are adjusting to a changing social dynamic and that we ought to account for and understand the deficiencies both genders are dealing with. But, like countless times before, somebody completely lost their shit over the "a half dozen generations ago you bitches were de-facto property" part... ...without recognizing that not only is that painted as something bad, it happens to be true. You came in looking for a "rah rah men's rights" argument so superheated that you literally ignored everything that wouldn't give it to you. And you're better than that. And you looked at it, and said "who the fuck badged this", and snarked the fuck out of it, and I called you on it, and you called it "a silly article with a rather pointless premise" instead of wondering what, exactly, I saw in it. And I'm better than that and you know it.Almost certainly, it is something biological and genetic. And my guess is that the greater proportion of men at both extremes of the IQ distribution is part of the same pattern. Nature rolls the dice with men more than women. Men go to extremes more than women. It’s true not just with IQ but also with other things, even height: The male distribution of height is flatter, with more really tall and really short men.
A pattern of more men at both extremes can create all sorts of misleading conclusions and other statistical mischief. To illustrate, let’s assume that men and women are on average exactly equal in every relevant respect, but more men at both extremes. If you then measure things that are bounded at one end, it screws up the data to make men and women seem significantly different. Consider grade point average in college. Thanks to grade inflation, most students now get A’s and B’s, but a few range all the way down to F. With that kind of low ceiling, the high-achieving males cannot pull up the male average, but the loser males will pull it down. The result will be that women will get higher average grades than men — again despite no difference in average quality of work.
The opposite result comes with salaries. There is a minimum wage but no maximum. Hence the high-achieving men can pull the male average up while the low-achieving ones can’t pull it down. The result? Men will get higher average salaries than women, even if there is no average difference on any relevant input. Today, sure enough, women get higher college grades but lower salaries than men. There is much discussion about what all this means and what should be done about it. But as you see, both facts could be just a statistical quirk stemming from male extremity.
Not to put too fine a point on it, but a half dozen generations ago you bitches were de-facto property. If we wanted in your pantaloons we'd fucking ask your dad, not you. So next time you get all catty and bitchy about shit, remember that we're dealing with our instincts in your world and try not to be too fucking complicated about it.
What this article says to me is that I, just naturally, whatever, cannot be as great as men. Not all men, but, you know, like 50% maybeish. I just can't. I didn't evolve that way, the women before me just lay there to get me here, and the assets I bring to the table in life are that I fucking get along with people and my baby will love me regardless of whether I am special in any single way or not. Neither of which are things I particularly care about. That even a "different" woman won't be able to get to the same peak or success as men. Because after all, historically, culturally, societally, etc, the only thing that has really mattered about all the women before her was their wombs. Women fall to the middle. Men get to the extremes. Huh? Do you expect that I am going to read that and be like "Yeah man, cool. I've always wanted to be average" ? And sure, like, we can all pow-wow and be like "Not you ref!" if we really want to, we can say "We mean it in general but not in specific" but the bottom line is that I'm a member of this class which has been identified in this article as having basically no significant, worthwhile positive attributes so far as I can see. They go along to get along. They've just had to survive. They don't take risks. They aren't as motivated. They're not as creative. Whatever, we can keep going. Let's even just say for the fun of it it's all fucking true. Who. The fuck. Would want to believe that? Oh yes, very insightful klein. Great article. Love it. 'scuse me while I go accept my second-rate existence. Don't worry, it doesn't bother me. Besides, I'm way more concerned with what everyone else thinks.
The article says literally fuckall about you. Here's the funny thing: on average, men are every bit as average as women. What the article says is that men are also more likely to rule harder and suck harder than women, but the men who suck harder are rarely even noticed. The article basically points out that women are going to be underrepresented at the top the same as they're underrepresented at the bottom but being underrepresented at the top is held forth as social injustice while being underrepresented at the bottom is held forth as a consequence of the natural superiority of women. But you're too busy looking to feel victimized to notice. The really stupid thing is that the article isn't even saying it should be this way. The article is saying "it's probably worth investigating how it came to be this way" and putting forth hypotheses. Know what the article says? "Average dudes don't get laid." It then explores the societal results of that maxim. Is your existence second-rate? Well, statistically you're more likely to get laid - assuming we're both single. We're not, though. I'm married. To a woman who was married before. To a guy who dropped out of college, didn't get a job, got addicted to pot and dropped out of life. That guy? out of the gene pool. I'll bet you didn't even know he existed - the fact that I'm my wife's second husband. He's so irrelevant to our life that we haven't even looked his ass up on Facebook. That guy? Not the norm. "Extraordinary." In a way you don't want to be. A dude who can't get laid is a loser. A woman who can't get laid is a tragedy. The article explores what that means for CEOs and jazz musicians. But frankly, at this point if you want to take it personally I really can't stop you so go right ahead.
Found it! Don't ever let statistical averages apply to you and you won't have a problem. What happens in the aggregate has jack shit to do with YOU, so long as you don't let it. I graduated high school thanks to a gift grade from an art teacher, who passed me when I didn't deserve it, as I'd spent all of high school getting high and cutting as much class as I could. In the average, I should be digging ditches for minimum wage by now, but I'm sure a shit not digging ditches. I'm not going to sit here and brag about how awesome my life is, but if I would have listened to everyone who told me I was destined to be a failure, I never would have stood a chance. My elementary school principle told my parents as much when I was 9. Seriously. Fuck averages. They're instructive when trying to explain group behavior, but they are meaningless to any particular individual. I'm not telling you not to be offended. I didn't read the article, because I don't have any interest in reading it. I don't know what it's like to be a woman or a minority, and I won't pretend to. But what I am telling you is that every other woman in the world could be a slug, and you're still you, and you still get to make your own choices.What this article says to me is that I, just naturally, whatever, cannot be as great as men.
Perhaps I will when I have time later. One thing I found fascinating about Catching Fire was the author's assertion that gender roles sprang from the need for protection in camp, as cooking requires (a) a fire that's easy to detect, and (b) sitting in one place for a ling time. Essentially, men and women struck a "deal" in which women cook for men and men protect them while doing so, and that this relationship has exactly nothing to do with sex. Best argument I've ever read, frankly.
And the African tribe that marries off the young bucks to the crones because the crones will bloody well be able to cook, which gives the young bucks the opportunity to thrive, outlive their crones and then take on the hot young new wives when they're established. It's funny how many taboos there are to talking about sex, even when the discussion is about the economic motivations derived from gender.
This is true for me as well. Being a man I'm statistically in exactly the same spot. About 50% of men cannot be as great as the other 50%. Why is this worse for you than for me? What this article says to me is that I, just naturally, whatever, cannot be as great as men. Not all men, but, you know, like 50% maybeish. I just can't.
No, what it's saying is that women produce fewer Stephen Hawkings, Einsteins, and so on. People who aren't normal. People who didn't speak for years, or have genetics that create muscular dystrophy. Traits that, in an ancient time, are more damaging to exist in women than to exist in men. You may well be an exception, you may well be an Einstein or a Stephen Hawking. However, if women as a group produce fewer of these sorts of people, then society will develop a bias against women as being incapable of doing those abnormal things. You should fight that bias, but understand it's origins at the same time. Without doing that, you cannot understand it, and will never defeat it.What this article says to me is that I, just naturally, whatever, cannot be as great as men. Not all men, but, you know, like 50% maybeish.
You're right about the genes of women also coming from men who fought their ways to the top, but the rest of your post is incoherent, emotional drivel. You refuted one point. I haven't read the article yet, so I'm just saying from an unbiased point of view: You bring up a good point, but overall your extreme anger and lack of coherent arguments does you more harm than good. Edit: After reading the article, even that one point that I ceded is invalid. You deliberately misinterpreted the write-up to make it fit your twisted idea of the world, sans facts, and if you don't see that then I feel sorry for you. The writer here was explaining the evolutionary differences between male and female. That is, what caused each to increase their likelihood of reproduction. Of course this is related to gender, as boys and girls aren't literally clones of each other that are half mom and half dad.
Well, here's the capstone:The ambition, competition, and striving for greatness may well be linked to this requirement to fight for respect. All-male groups tend to be marked by putdowns and other practices that remind everybody that there is not enough respect to go around, because this awareness motivates each man to try harder to earn respect. This, incidentally, has probably been a major source of friction as women have moved into the workplace, and organizations have had to shift toward policies that everyone is entitled to respect. The men hadn’t originally built them to respect everybody.
Not this BS again. The idea that women are as poorly represented as they are in STEM because they "just don't like it" is just willfully ignorant at this point. Disregarding the obviously insulting diaper comparison - Eccles concluded nothing of the sort, and that one sentence summary is an insane oversimplification of her research. Studies show the opposite, young girls have equal interest in STEM until we condition that away. This is alongside study after study showing girls are treated differently in STEM classes and are socialized away even if they do choose that track. Here's a PDF Eccles wrote herself, skip to the end for a summary : http://www.rcgd.isr.umich.edu/garp/articles/eccles07.pdf Misrepresenting scientific studies so heinously makes me distrust the rest of the article and question his motivations in writing it. I'm a bit disappointed this is getting so much traction here, I expected better.Maybe women can do math and science perfectly well but they just don’t like to. After all, most men don’t like math either! Of the small minority of people who do like math, there are probably more men than women. Research by Jacquelynne Eccles has repeatedly concluded that the shortage of females in math and science reflects motivation more than ability. And by the same logic, I suspect most men could learn to change diapers and vacuum under the sofa perfectly well too, and if men don’t do those things, it’s because they don’t want to or don’t like to, not because they are constitutionally unable (much as they may occasionally pretend otherwise!).
Can you spell out where Eccles' research is being misrepresented? From the part you quoted: The compares to the summary from the piece you linked: Downplaying ability as less of factor sounds like Eccles' statement that the difference isn't aptitude. Stating it's more about motivation sounds like value placed on the occupations. What am I missing?Research by Jacquelynne Eccles has repeatedly concluded that the shortage of females in math and science reflects motivation more than ability.
Our analyses suggest that the main source of gender differences in entry into physical science and engineering occupations is not gender differences in either math aptitude or a sense of personal efficacy to succeed at these occupations, rather it is a gender difference in the value placed on different types of occupations.
If I hit you with a cattle prod every time you ate pickles for 10 years, then gave you a pickle to eat, it's pretty misleading to say "You didn't like it, I guess WanderingEng just doesn't like pickles". Eccles wrote a long paper, context is important. She is talking about high school aged girls choices after they have already been socialized away from STEM. She discusses those methods of socialization, societal expectations for women, and a ton of other factors before that quote you pulled out. The original article says "Maybe women can do math and science perfectly well but they just don’t like to." Her work says women are actively discouraged from entering STEM careers. Very, very different messages.
My read doesn't see them as very different messages but rather complementary. "Maybe women can do math and science perfectly well but they just don’t like to." Maybe they don't like to because of societal expectations. Or as Eccles says "my own opinion is that these differences reflect, at least to some extent, inaccurate stereotypes about physical sciences and engineering." Why do those difference exist? Why do different expectations exist? How did they come to be? When I read the original piece I see discussion that offers answers to those questions. I don't see it ignoring that those expectations exist, and I don't see it arguing those expectations are fair or reasonable or good.
I strongly disagree that "women just don't like something" is logically equivalent to "girls in kindergarten like this thing. 12 years later, most no longer do". And we don't need his guesswork for answers. There's been a huge body of research on why women are underrepresented in STEM, and I'm much more interested in those studies then someone who parallels scientific careers for men to diaper changing for women. Ugh - how do you seriously back a guy who talks that way? Is this the 50s? Girls do like STEM. We change that. Saying they don't is patently false, I don't really understand how you think it's the same. It's too bad. Hubski doesn't have a ton of content lately, it seems like every time I'm on here some popular post involves bickering over sexism. I'm really done reading this crap, I'll hop off for a while and try filtering out even more of the few discussions there are on here.
I simply asked you to defend your assertion that he's misrepresenting Eccles.Ugh - how do you seriously back a guy who talks that way? Is this the 50s?
Sorry, I've never read any of those studies showing that society changes girls towards not liking STEM. Do we really know that for sure? Or could it just happen that girls lose interest naturally? I mean, are there any kind of control groups, that if society would change, that we would have more women in STEM, maybe even more than men? (For sure, if society can turn of girls, it should be able to do it with boys too, right?)
Of course we don't have control groups because you aren't allowed to raise children in a bubble to appease idiots online. Good point, its much more logical to conclude our ovaries cause a natural fear of binary, totally makes sense. 70 days here and this is your only comment? As for the studies try Google, I'm done with this.
Men are dogs! That is best thing I ever heard. Cheers!
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