So I went on date Monday night. It was my 7th date with this girl. She asked me if I wanted to go out and then canceled because she felt tired but changed her mind. I didn't convince her by the way as I felt tired as well. So we went out to dinner or rather I had dinner as she had eaten earlier. Anyways throughout the evening, I noticed that while talking to me, she happens to be on her phone a lot. I pointed it out and she stops for a minute and then after a couple of minutes more of conversation, she continues to get back on the phone. Later on, we are sitting at Washington Square Park on a park bench and curiosity got the better of me. I glanced over at her phone for a quick second and saw that she was on TINDER!!!! This girl had kissed me on the mouth a couple of weeks ago and now she is on Tinder while she is supposed to be on a date with me. I even saw a notification that she got a message from some other guy. Shortly after I told her I was going, I felt really bad at that moment in time and I still feel kinda crappy about this, I don't feel like talking to her at all. I didn't bring up that I saw her on Tinder but I think that was more out of shock than anything else. I don't know, it just sucks.
That's not cool. Sorry you experienced that but perhaps it is better to happen now than months from now. Still, if you otherwise like this girl, it might make sense to let her know why you aren't pursuing anything further.
Even before this incident, my feelings for this girl were going down as she had a tendency to be somewhat cold and distant. For the last couple of times we met up, she was the one asking me to hang out not me.