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comment by arguewithatree
arguewithatree  ·  3027 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Confessions of a Sexual Skeptic

yeah my experience with the "sex positive movement" as discussed in this article has been a lot of talking over people with not so positive experiences with sex. which is not to say i think people shouldn't be enthusiastic and open about sex, but it's been the sort of experience where the more you have to say you are abc (nice, smart, cool, chill about all levels of comfort about sex, etc) the less likely you are to actually BE abc.