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kleinbl00  ·  4075 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What Do You Want, Hubski?

"Not actively searching to be in a relationship" is exactly when the really good ones hit you.

Take care of you. Everything else will follow.





coldstuff  ·  4070 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Something about this made me feel really giddy...I think it's mostly because I totally agree and my mind recalled the feeling of finding exactly what you're looking for when you're not looking at all.

_refugee_  ·  3347 days ago  ·  link  ·  

There is a person I want, who isn't good for me, and who I don't think I'll have (bc a combination of factors).

But I refuse to settle. If I can't have him, I won't have nobody.

So for now, I won't have nobody. But I'm using the time to have me, and all of me, the way I want me.

I think this is better. Even if I may be turning down things. I trust if gold really were to show up I wouldn't be able to turn it down, but until that happens, I'm giving everyone a pass.

cgod  ·  4075 days ago  ·  link  ·  

And also when you are "looking" you tend to find it even if it's really not there. I see lots of folks waste a lot of time wondering if this is the one.

When you are taking care of yourself you are much more attractive.