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comment by wannabe_smartguy

The evidence is mounting that the brightest, most productive people stay off the web. It's just not worth their time, plus it doesn't develop good habits of mind. It's amazing that a staple of the advice I see in self-help books nowadays is "read books." Really? People need to be told this? Then again, I don't really read books that much. I try to, and I do it all the time for school, but it's not the default use of my free time.

Brb, quitting the internet.





Leshik  ·  4045 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I don't think this is implying to flat out "stay off the web." I gathered "stay off of social media, and otherwise (non-intelligent) mediums," which is something I can get behind.

Hubski seems to have some relatively intelligent banter on here in my brief experience on the site.

user-inactivated  ·  4045 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I see the "stay off social media" advice a lot. I have to wonder if the people who say that are using social media the same way as I am, and still want to get off it. I think an interesting hubski though experiment would be everyone taking an objective look at their facebook feeds to see exactly how high or low quality the content actually is, and what this says about the site they presumably spend so much time on.

I suspect the answer would be that for a lot of us, nearly everything on our facebook feed is meaningful or interesting to see. The damn thing has personalization as a feature, after all. So I've never understood that paradigm.

Leshik  ·  4044 days ago  ·  link  ·  

meh... I found everything on facebook incredibly mundane and repetitive, and so I got rid of it a few years ago (some time around late 2009 or early 2010). I also was starting to have some privacy concerns, and I think I was pretty far ahead of the curve on that.

My facebook experience prior to shutting it off though was similar to:

Oh, you had a baby, here's a picture of the kid, now the kid has cake on his face...

Oh this other person had a baby, here's a picture of that kid... she has cake on her face too...

Oh, you want to tell me how I should vote... thanks, I sincerely appreciate your insight! :/

Oh, you're eating a sandwich, cool...

It's Saturday... Go Gators, UCF, Miami, USF, and FSU... bleh

I enjoy talking with people on hubski / reddit significantly more; although reddit has been declining for a while now too... which prompted me to find Hubski :D

user-inactivated  ·  4044 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Well there's a ... block function ... I don't understand the huge class of people who use facebook regularly, complain about it even more regularly, and don't do anything to customize it. Sure, deleting it is one route, and that's fine, although if I deleted my facebook I think I'd probably lose my job (or at least have to expend tons of effort to keep it).

However, what I found was that if you block the people who post the sandwiches, facebook becomes possibly the product it was supposed to be.

b_b  ·  4044 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Isn't the product it was supposed to be a way to more easily bang chicks on campus?

humanodon  ·  4044 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I remember when facebook came out, my school was one of the first to be included in the Boston area and yes, at that time that's how people were talking about using it.

user-inactivated  ·  4044 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm not sure, I haven't seen the movie. Drawing from experience in my own life, the answer is probably yes.

elizabeth  ·  4044 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yeah facebook is more of an extension of e-mail for me now. It's just the easiest and fastest way to get in contact with people now. At least in my circle of friends.

stacker  ·  4044 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yep, that's all I use facebook for now days. If I have a quick message that I want to send to a friend that is easier to send on facebook than through text then I will do it that way. Other than this specific context though, I don't use facebook at all.

sounds_sound  ·  4044 days ago  ·  link  ·  

what about parties? do you use facebook invite?

stacker  ·  4044 days ago  ·  link  ·  

No I don't use invite. I don't even know what it is really. I only send a message to my 3 closest friends about once a month on facebook so I'm lost when it comes to the new features.