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jaggs  ·  4068 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski, when do you experience flow?

Everytime I meditate (ie every day)





louderwords  ·  4067 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Any tips for sticking with meditation? I'll be able to occasionally get myself to do it but then I kinda forget as sad as that is to say. It's hard to motivate myself to meditate haha.

I try to use calm.com because the music + guided voice would help get me into a clearer state of mind.

jaggs  ·  4067 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Hmm.. I wish it was possible to offer practical advice to help you with sticking at it, but every person's motivation is different, which makes it almost impossible I think. In my case, I started out because someone said meditation would help me handle stress better, but it soon delivered such incredibly life-changing benefits that it became absolutely indispensable to my daily routine. At which point I became an addict. :)

AlderaanDuran  ·  4067 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I would recommend no music, no voice, no nothing. Zazen is where it's at. It's a specific posture, a specific way to sit, but other than that, it's just calm and quiet and you versus the silence of your mind.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Zazen

But honestly, whatever works for you. If it's music and a voice, that's fine by me. As I've talked about in the thread insom linked, there's all kinds of sects of buddhism and you would have to find what meditation style works for you. But many come back to pure zazen because it seems to work the best.

As for sticking with it, just start small, 15 minutes a day. It's just sitting after all, consider it a productive nap of some sort. I do 30 minutes a day normally, sometimes it's only 20. Depends on the day.

jaggs  ·  4067 days ago  ·  link  ·  
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insomniasexx  ·  4067 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Did you see this post: http://hubski.com/pub?id=114668 ?

jaggs  ·  4067 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yes, I did now thanks. :)

AlderaanDuran  ·  4067 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Me and Blob Castle are selling enlightenment for four easy installments of $50. Come one come all!

_refugee_  ·  4067 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I'm sorry, I'm about to send a wire transfer to a Very Important Person (sorry, can't name names, tee-hee, but let's say he's of royal blood ) in Nigeria. I'm in a rush...

Will you guys still be here when I come back? (Credit cards okay? Can I buy some for my cat/brother/sister/parent as well, or do they have to purchase their own - do you offer gift subscriptions?)

ecib  ·  4067 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Credit cards okay?

So passe, you can just email money now, -don't even need to sign up for anything: https://square.com/cash

:D

P.S. I am also a Nigerian prince.

AlderaanDuran  ·  4067 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    Can I buy some for my cat/brother/sister/parent as well

Of course, enlightenment makes a great stocking stuffer with the holidays coming up.