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comment by ButterflyEffect
ButterflyEffect  ·  3746 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski: When have you cried at a concert?

Sex to Rufus Wainwright? Damn, dude. That's intense. I would feel so incredible uncomfortable in the situation you just described.

    What made me buy those tickets? What made my ex buy those tickets? Was it both our way of saying "I'm over this?"

That'd make an excellent #askhubski question, don't you think? "What was your way of saying 'I'm over this?'" for...anything really.





thenewgreen  ·  3746 days ago  ·  link  ·  

After spending 5 formative years with someone, can you ever really be "over" them? They've become a part of you forever, no?

ButterflyEffect  ·  3746 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    After spending 5 formative years with someone, can you ever really be "over" them? They've become a part of you forever, no?

I...don't know. My longest relationship is a little less than half that amount of time, and I don't think enough time has passed for me to have a good answer to that question.