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tacocat  ·  3501 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski, how do you convince yourself to get up and do something?

Make it a habit.





OftenBen  ·  3501 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Something that I've learned from Hubski is that success and failure are granular. You succeed or fail moment by moment, and most of the time* a grain of progress more than offsets a grain of failure. There's also a lot to be said for momentum.

galen  ·  3500 days ago  ·  link  ·  

    There's also a lot to be said for momentum.

I think this is where my problem lies today. I've been sick for a couple days, so I lost all my inertia, instead sitting around and watching Friends all the time. Now that I'm getting better, I find it's tremendously difficult to start doing things again.

tacocat  ·  3500 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Watching Friends also saps my will to live

galen  ·  3500 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I really enjoy the show, but it has a tendency to remind me of all the depressing shit going on in my own life.

tacocat  ·  3500 days ago  ·  link  ·  

That is the strangest reaction to that show ever.

I just think it sucks.

veen  ·  3500 days ago  ·  link  ·  

The way I try to regain my inertia is to start with some small tasks that I know I'll be able to do in ten minutes. Clean dishes. Take out the trash. Write a paragraph. Do a three or four of these small tasks in a row - they'll give you the satisfaction of having accomplished something useful.

Then, take a break, get some coffee, and do two or three tasks that take a bit longer. You've now had an hour of productivity, which for me is more than enough inertia to keep on going. Starting is the hardest part, so make that easier.

OftenBen  ·  3500 days ago  ·  link  ·  

This is what kills my workout streaks. I'll go a week or two of solid workouts, every other day maybe, get sick or get symptomatic (Heart stuff) and have to take a few days off, and then my momentum is gone, and I'll go weeks without working out.

When I'm sick now I make a point to catch up on reading or audiobooks, so I at least feel like I did something.

thenewgreen  ·  3501 days ago  ·  link  ·  

This is actually good advice. Once you make a habit of setting daily goals and accomplishing them, it becomes pretty easy. Large goals can be daunting, but it's the daily goals that get you there that really matter. It's the whole, how do you eat an elephant? question, right? The answer of course is one bite at a time, -it's those small little bites that matter.

I have mentioned many times that I'm a fan of making a daily list. It feels good to cross things off of it. galen, I would also recommend crossing the things you least want to do off of the list first.

Good luck amigo!