Reading your comment after the replies to bfx below was an interesting one. It seems to go in-line with what others say about polyamory and also fits what I have seen around me the past few years. Out of curiosity, is it possible that many poly people around you are burners? Anyway, nothing much of value to say except "Hi, I hope you are well!" And "merry Christmas :D"
Yes, definitely almost all burners or soon to be burners when they inevitably make it out to our regional in the summer. So that might skew my perspective on what poly looks like in the wild. Cause of the smug burner superiority complex about how we do it better than others. Which on many levels I feel like we probably do - and that makes us even more insufferable… Merry Christmas! It’s lining up to be a new year of many changes and fresh starts! Time to make good healthy choices for the future