You could totally hate on this lady if that is what you wanted to do. She gets drunk and fights with her boyfriends a few times a month, part of her discretionary income goes to drugs (not a druggy but I think she likes to get lose once and awhile). Her side incomes are undeclared and probably would reduce her benefits if they were known. She definitely isn't living a life of luxury, they stretch their food budget wisely buy used clothes and stuff. Her son is a teenager and eats like a horse, he is pissy like a teenager even if he doesn't talk and can't do many things for himself. Generally I think she is a good mom but like most people her shit is complicated.
Still, I have no problem with tax dollars going to help a family with a legitimately disabled individual to support. That's all I meant. Of course there are complications and nuance to every story. Humans will be humans. To hold a welfare recipient to an impossible standard is foolish. I'd use some of that money to buy beer. You best believe it.