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mk  ·  4459 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: TNG Podcast: Public Speaking: Ask Hubski: Do you have a fear of public speaking?

One of the most valuable things that has happened to me regarding public speaking was watching a talk that I gave. I said 'um' way more than I perceived I did. It was painful to watch. I now do everything in my power not to utter it. Instead, I simply pause. My talks have much improved as a result.

If I were to become a politician, I would watch my own speeches whenever possible.

IMO another important thing to do is to tell a story. It is so much easier to talk about something when you frame it in the context of a story.

I get a bit nervous before a talk, but I've learned to prepare a bit more, and to care a lot less. The audience mostly just wants to relax and learn about something. If you do your best to explain something without boring them, you'll be alright.

In a couple of weeks, I am slated to give a talk to the Physics Department of my alma mater. As a student, I used to attend these talks religiously. It will be interesting to be on the other side of the podium, and to present to the faculty that taught me.





thenewgreen  ·  4459 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Watching your talks, what a great piece of advice mk. Was there anything beyond the "um's" that you noticed while watching it? Did it change how you perceive your mannerisms when talking? I find that I'm more engaged when someone effectively uses hand gestures/body language when speaking. It tends to show me that they're more engaged.

I like the idea of communicating ideas through stories. When making presentations, I will often try to use stories or metaphor to communicate a complex idea, to make something that seemed undesirable seem attainable and attractive. This has taken years to get good at. I will also try to challenge assumptions, nothing gets your audience captivated like being challenged.

Good luck with your talk, it sounds like a cool moment in your professional development. The student has become the master!

Try not to laugh uncontrollably ;-)

mk  ·  4459 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Mostly just the ums. It was painful. I can't help but use my hands when I am talking to people, so I am good there.

steve  ·  4457 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I remember a time when we counted your ums in a speech...and you came very close to paying a dear price.

mk  ·  4457 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Say 'um' one more time motherfucker?

steve  ·  4457 days ago  ·  link  ·  

mmm... that IS a tasty burger.